Matthew Hallonbacka<p>I’m pretty strongly an AI-skeptic, so this was a conflicting read. Autistic 20-year-old starts relying on an AI chatbot for emotional support and it worked, to some extent. <br>I wish no-one felt that had to do this, but asking for informal or professional help can be super-hard, especially if you’re not coping and feel like a burden on other people. It can be so hard that I also can’t fault anyone who falls into this pattern. <br>A statistically chosen sequence of words can make sense and feel helpful, even if you know it’s not a meaningful social connection. That might even be the appeal: maybe that’s the thing that won’t judge you, think less of you or treat you like an annoyance. <br>I guess, at the core, this is just the modern (more environmentally terrible) version of an imaginary friend, or a fantasy world you escape to sometimes? Not a replacement for some human contact, but not inherently damaging, in moderation, either. <br>CW: Linked article briefly mentions cases of suicide<br><a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2025/07/20/magazine/ai-chatbot-friendship-character.html?unlocked_article_code=1.bE8.q4NJ.xdiwDsw3KcML&smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">nytimes.com/2025/07/20/magazin</span><span class="invisible">e/ai-chatbot-friendship-character.html?unlocked_article_code=1.bE8.q4NJ.xdiwDsw3KcML&smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare</span></a><br><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/actuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>autism</span></a></p>